Traditionally, the bachelorette party is planned by your closest gal pals. If you trust their judgement regarding the situation, then be okay with their decision of whether or not to invite her. If you want to keep a closer eye on things, consider doing a dual bachelor/bachelorette party. They can be double the fun.

Above all...he didn't pick her (although it sounds like she would of said no now ), he picked you. Don't lose sight of that. With all the hoopla and craziness that comes from wedding planning, it can get easy to miss that.

Find a night this next week to just spend some time together with him and remember how you met...your first kiss...and when you first hoped he'd ask for your hand.

Good luck!