My fiancee and I are not sure who is suppose to pay for the bridal gowns and tux's. He thinks that we are suppose to, since we are asking them to be in our wedding, therefore he thinks that if we don't pay for them that we are being rude. I on the other hand always thought that they paid for their own dress/tux, and that is just common knowledge that if you accept to be a part of the wedding that you are to buy your own dress/tux. Which one is right?