Thanks Dani.
The only reason why I'd wanna have it now is because once that one year mark hits, then it's gonna be like 'ok, we really need to get crackin' on this wedding' lol. I just don't want to overload myself with planning a wedding and an egagement party. But we'll see. We're not even sure we want to have it yet. But thank you for your advise, Dani!