I recently picked up a wedding book that helps with planning and budgeting a wedding. It suggested making 2 identical lists of everything you're going to spend money on, from the location all the way down to the honeymoon. Then it says to give one of the lists to your FH and have him number the list according to what he thinks the 2 of you should spend the most money on down to what you should spend the least on. You would do the same on the other list, then when you're both done, compare the 2 lists. My FH and I did this the other night. It was interesting, I'll say that much lol. But it was helpful.