I know what you mean - mine is les than six months away and it feels like a fantasy. My parents aren't involved in my life so I am doing all of the planning all on my own - I started about three months ago. I think that maybe your mom feels she has time to get excited given it's in 2010. Give her time. Also - if you can book the venue - go for it. It will be one less thing to worry about, have to pay for and have to scramble to find a new one in the event it's booked. Get that item checked off your list!!!