I am starting to have the same thing too. I was going to have my wedding at my parent's church and have my parent's and FH's brother do the catering. Now I have fallen in love with a site and their caterer, so the buget has to almost double. I am in the Seattle area, so the fee for the site alone is $1600. The place is so much prettier than my parent's chirch though (which was going to cost about $600) so I will be cutting down on flower and decor costs.

Seriously going crazy with all of this planning though, I am getting married in May, and all I have is my dress and favors. So much to do, so little time and money.