I need help with including tweens in the wedding party....I want my two little cousins (6 & 7)to be the flower girls and they have two older brothers (12 & 14) who I need to include...My fiance has two kids in his family - I want the girl to be a flower girl, but I need to include her older brother (12)...I was thinking one of the older boys could seat his mother but i'm left with 3 yound boys and there are no jr. bridesmaids I could put them with...Does anyone have an idea of what they could do....I should mention I have his four cousins as hotesses (taking care of the guest book, seating arrangments, gift table, ect)