Wow! 19k? (Frank girl - I would love to see what that look like) I found a hotel that will give us a ballroom for the ceremony, foyer area for the cocktail hour and a ballroom for the reception. Theyre including a honeymoon suite and breakfast buffet for us. They also are giving us champagne for the reception. All the chairs, tables, lines, china, ect, and setup/take down are included. We only had to spend a minimum of $3200 on the food & drinks and were looking at $4200. I only have to buy my attire, flowers, cake, decorations, stationary & favors and thats all! I think an inclusive package is the way to go.