I had to laugh reading this lol. You have a fun and corky way of putting things ~ I love it. But anyways, I know what you mean. I'm not against slow songs, but I'm dead set on picking songs that not many people pick. I like to be different. As I mentioned in other posts, for our father/daughter dance I'm picking John Mayer's - daughters. I don't know if you know the song good, but the lyrics kinda fit in if your relationship hasn't been all that great with your dad. Which is exactly why I'm picking it. My father and I have only recently been kind to eachother. As a child, he was very tough on me (which is pretty much the typical Portuguese household) and we never had that special father/daughter bond. If you don't know the lyrics to that song, look it up, you'll see how fitting it is. As far as other songs in my wedding, well, I'm not 100% sure on alot lol. I think we're gonna have, Come on feel the noise by Twisted Sister, for the bridal party entrance. My 15 year old brother says that's by Quiet Riot, but I'll look into that later. And I'm really liking that song Adam Sandler sings at the end of 'the wedding singer' for our first dance. It's slow and sweet but yet it's dorky lol ~ which is totally me. Really, just pick songs you like. It's not your aunts wedding or your mother- in - law's or your cousin's....it's your wedding. Pick songs that remind you and your fiance' about your life together thus far.