Hey girls,

I wanted to ask everyone how they are planning the big day? Are you guys getting help by your family/friends/wedding party? Not a single soul has even uttered a word to help me plan our May 9, 2008 wedding and it's been SO depressing. My mom has been living for this moment for a decade (I'm 33) and now that it's here she could not seem less interested. She doesn't have her dress yet, I picked out all the flowers, invites, my dress... EVERYTHING all by myself. What has been making me cry constantly at this point is I picked up my wedding gown on Saturday and all these girls were totally surrounded by their friends and family... taking pics... I was there all by myself... again. I did 150 invitations solo this weekend as well and it just SUCKS. I didn't think I would have to actually ask people and now I'm just so mad-- I don't want anyone's help. Fortunately I have an excellent, caring and understanding fiance who makes it all worth while. Are you girls getting help?

Andrea