i 100% know how you feel.. not only are we paying for all of it on our own, but im also planning all of it on my own. my mom only went to the dress shop after i said i found one and wanted her to see it.. but i did all the dress shopping on my own till that point. i always see alot of people around a bride in the store, and it does hurt a little.. but to be honest. i dont know if i would want alot of help. its my wedding and i want to plan what i want. so, my fiance and i are the ones planning and picking out invites and cake etc. it would have been nice tho to have my mom there just to be there and be excited. and your right, after a certain point, you dont want help.lol. whats the point, the hard stuff is done?lol.
dont worry, it will all be over soon.lol