Ummm...this is definately a difficult thread. Might be the reason for the lack of posts.

This is a very delicate issue and a very personal one. With that said, I want to assure you that no offense is intended, but as a christian I find your choice of the word stalling very troubling.

The fact that he was raised a Catholic(even tho he says he's not religious) and wants a church wedding if telling you something. Religion or better yet, the belief in god is more than a choice. It's a feeling. It's a safe reassuring feeling you don't have. The fact that you said you were stalling implies that you plan on changing his mind. A marriage within any religion or lack of it will find more obstacles than a wedding venue ahead of them.

You and you FH need to need sit down and have a serious talk...you both need to know what you up against.

I wish you both the best of luck.