I agree, I think that the dress is really pretty, and the reason it looks kinda stiff to you is because you are on the stand. I debated whether or not to get the peticoat that came with my dress, but if you wear the dress without it, then the dress can end up with that line down the front while you are walking because it is getting pulled between your legs. I would say try it on both ways before the big day and walk around a bit to make that decision.