Well i'm 20 and getting married but have absolutely zero help as well. My mom heard I found a dress I wanted but said it was too much and won't come help me look at dresses to find something in a better price range. She'll listen to ideas on the phone but I don't get a whole lot of input. My father isn't wanting to give us money for anything that he doesn't approve which means super cheap but also amazing quality .... yeah, I don't know what world he lives in where these things exist. But he also won't help me with anything. They are all happy about it but they won't help. My MOH has only taken me out twice to look at wedding dresses but liked all the ones I didn't lol and doesn't seem to into helping any more than she has. My other bridesmaids can't help a whole lot. One has been sick for awhile (as in, in the hospital for awhile) while the other is now unable to even be in the wedding since having to move. So hang in there! I hardley have any money to throw this together and zero help but I'm trying to make the best of it. If I can do it then you can too! Just try to think of unique ideas... they may be more inexpense than the "normal" wedding and you will have something that people will be sure to remember.