My wedding has been pretty stressful so far in planning and my fiance and I have had to move the date from September 2008 to June 2008. A good friend of mine, who was going to be one of my 3 in my bridal party, moved a couple of states away recently. She assured me (when the date was still set for sept) that she could come up for the wedding. Before setting the date to june but having it as a possibity in mind I mentioned the idea to her. She said that if I get married in June there was absolutely no way she could be there. Financially or otherwise. If it were just financially I would try to get the other 2 girls to help me get some money together to bring her here but apparently their are other reasons to but she wouldn't elaborate. She seemed really disappointed that I was changing the date and I know she's been very excited to be in it for awhile now so I feel horrible calling to tell her we are definatly sticking with June. Its especially hard since she doesn't necessarily agree with my reasons for wanting to move up the wedding (family stuff). How is an easy way to tell her without making her feel bad???????