Since I've become engaged everyones been really excited for me which is awesome of them . Lately it seems my MOH's enthusiasm has gone away. I know its not her wedding so she isn't going to be excited as I am about all the time but she never has the time to take me out to look at wedding things. She will go out with other friends and do stuff but she will tell me she has no time. I try not to talk about it much because I don't want to drive anyone nuts like I have been with all the rushing I've been doing. She just doesn't seem to care that much anymore at all. When I picked her to be my MOH it was a hard choice. Her and one of my bridesmaids were tied pretty much in my mind. I almost want to tell her she can just be a bridesmaid and my bridesmaid my new MOH. I think that would hurt feelings though. I just see her not caring as much about the wedding or our friendship for that last couple of months, even before I was engaged. When I got engaged she wanted to hang out all the time and do all this wedding stuff, now its nada. I don't understand. Can anyone shed some light or give me advice?