I just answered one of your other posts.... YOU HAVE BRIDEsMAID ISSUES!!!! You poor thing!!! I feel so bad for you.
Well, I think I would be honest with her, just as you swere.. It's your wedding, and ya can;t hardly plan it around others. If you have family reasons that it has to be moved, then thats just the way it is. I would simply tell her that the wedding definately has to be in June, and if their is ANY way she could make it, you would be honored and blessed to have her be part of your special day, and that you and the girls will help her make it financially. If she still declines, then their must be other reasons that she can't come. At least you extended your offer to her, and showed her you care about her being their. I think that is all you can do. I have found in planning my wedding.... it is DAMN IMPOSSIBLE to please everyone. SO I just try to please myself!!!
Good luck chick!
Rachel