Hey Brit... when is your wedding date? We must be close because I'm 2.5 months out too

I'm getting married May 9th. I think it's so insane that your future MIL wants to change your invitation colors. That's just rude and crazy! I would totally stick my ground with that... it is YOUR wedding after all. Oh and my future MIL is from Italy as well... maybe they are sisters with the stuff they are trying to pull.
We stood our ground after her ruining our weekend, me hysterically crying for 4 days straight and nearly canceling our big weekend to just elope... and we won so there is hope. Hang in there and think big picture

Good luck !
Andrea