Wow how cool !!! I'm getting married on May 9th too !!!

Well things haven't improved here. My MIL keeps leaving messages to her son, in Italian of course, and other members of the family keep sending mails etc to him.

I sneaked in my fiance's computer, as he would not tell me what was happening, and was able to understand more or less with an online translator.

I definitively need to have a good conversation with him because his family is interfering soooooo much. It's as if I do not exist and what I'm thinking doesn't count.
One of his sisters wrote: you can't ask our Mom to send tasteless cards to her friends...

I know he loves me, but I fear this situation gets worse after the wedding. Frankly I'm a little depressed right now. I'm sorry bothering and writing all my stuff out, but it's really hard to deal with it all, 100% alone...

I wonder if a couple can get married without any fights etc...

Andrea - how did you deal with your MIL, did your fiance tell her that it was not possible for her to invite these people ? Or was it you who had a conversation with her ?
I'm wondering if I should talk directly to her, because regarding his mom, my fiance is a little coward... Maybe all boys are...