Hi!

I am in a similar situation and everything that I have read and all the advice that I have been given is to do it like it was your first time. It's your wedding and it is up to you on what you want and how you want it. If your previous marriage was anything like mine, it wasn't really a marriage from the beginning and mine lasted 12 years! I am very excited to be marrying my FH and being that I was married in the courthouse by the Justice of the Peace with no reception and no honeymoon, I can honestly say this will be my first wedding and I intend to make it the best ever! All of the traditional wedding "rules" of the previous generations don't seem to matter anymore and being that it is supposed to be "your" day, I suggest that you treat yourself like the princess you are and demand all that you want and more.