Information is a bit hard to find on the internet about Destination weddings!! I'm getting married on 06/14/2008 in Negril, Jamaica at the Riu and have tons of questions!! We have about 50/60 people attending including some kids. I've learned that wedding coordinators are on "island time" where as I'm in Chicago and used to getting response times much quicker!

I've got the welcome bags all set - FYI careful if you send any boxes to your resort beforehand - It's worth the $$ to track it - Ive heard some horror stories! Also you can't send food, alka seltzer, etc. I did find some great, cheap stuff at Party supplies, crafts, party decorations, toys: Oriental Trading. Also found some sample size hempz sunburn treatment for under $1 each at amazon.com

Questions!!
1) My fiance's father passed away when he was younger...what can we have in memory of him on the beach during the ceremony? I've only found candles, vases - any suggestions??
2) We are having a reception back in Chicago in August & I would somehow like to incorporate sand, seashells, white roses in the centerpieces - Our theme is sapphire, silver and white - any ideas?

I'll submit more Q's later !!

Any advice, story, suggestion is appreciated!