Well now I find out she can afford to come and I have found the bridesmaid dresses... but to have them in on time for alterations they need to order them in this week or early next week. I gave my long distance bridesmaid a call and found out her husbands grandmother just died. I told her if she could just give me her measurements I would loan her the money for the dress until she and her husband are a little less stressed. Apparently her husbands aunt who was going to take her measurements yelled at her for asking her to take them with all thats going on there. I feel horrible that they yelled at her but I still need them in soon.... I told her to not stress out about it but to just try to get them to me by this friday (tomorrow, mind you I talked to her 2 days ago). I told her that I don't want to rush her but at the same time I do since I want her to stay in the wedding if she can. My fiance says if she doesn't have them to me by monday I should just tell them that I'm only doing two girls and send it out so they get their dresses on time. I feel horrible but I don't really know how to handle this situation. Any advice?