I really don't know if I will be having a shower because of work! I am a manager and it is really hard to get a weekend off. I live in Tyler, TX and our wedding is back home around New Orleans . . . My bridesmaids told me come heck or high water they are going to plan one for me. But I just do not see it happening unless I find a job that is M-F 9-5 or something where I do not have to worry about taking a weekend off.