Nikita.. i AGREE with you.
I know my FH parents don't even hardly ask about the wedding.. excpet when it is??? When my son gets married, I will not be that future mother inlaw... I will help as much as I financially can. Things have changed so much..and some people follow tradition and etiquette.. and some feel its their part to contribute.
SADLY.. I know how ya feel and my future Inlaws follow their own tradition... don't offer to pay...just show up and drink form the open bar..NICE HUH.....I feel your pain...lol.. can ya tell im bitter???
Rachel