Ok, I know it's polite and proper etiquette to offer food at the reception to your DJ, officiant, photographer, ect. I do plan on offering to my DJ/officiant (same person) - for one, he gave me a fantastic price for doing both jobs and two, he's sort of a friend of the family. So, I think it's only right to feed him at the wedding. But here's my thing ~ do I have to offer to my photographer as well? I know it's 'the right thing to do', but it just bothers me some because we're actually cutting the guest list down some to cut our costs. It's like ok, I'm getting rid of a family member but I'm going to pay for someone I don't even know. Is it a huge no, no to not offer food to my photogarpher ~ especially when I'm feeding the DJ ?