well, im suppose to be getting married on may 31st this year. its been really tight lately, and we're still behind. we've tried everything from asking all parents and grandparents for a loan,and even his bro thats in the army. he said he was able to help us, but while he was back here on leave, he forgot to write us a check. now as of today, he's heading back to iraq. he was our last hope pretty much. our own bills are late, let alone trying to pay for a wedding. we have some options left, like eloping..but, as of right now, looks like the wedding is postponed
this sucks! we got soo close..something ive always dreamt of. now theres no other option other than push it back if i still want a wedding. i give up! like dr. phil said once.. you should plan a marriage, not a wedding. and thats why i finally have started thinking about eloping. maybe not all the way, but just immediate family..really, really small. even if we decide to do that, we will have to wait, cuz i still dont have a wedding band. we bought his back at christmas time, but are maxed out on gettin a credit card through the store.
damn, i was excited about the honeymoon too! lol. end of rant
oh well, best of luck to all of you!