Hi girls,

I feel a little desperate here.
My wedding is for May 9th... and we might not get married at all because of my family in law.
My fiance keeps receiving calls from his family, they hate our color theme, they do not like our invitations, they want to add last minute guests (and WE are paying, not them).

During all the preparation, I've had no help, no nothing, no comments etc, and now everything is ordered, I'm getting it all..

I just feel terrible. Communication is pretty difficult with my fiance because he seems upset because is Mom gets him upset. I feel he's having second thoughts. I tried to talk about it with him. But he won't say anything.
When he talks with his mother, I just can't understand as they speak in Italian, so I'm pretty lost...

I feel he's not going to cancel the wedding because now we are close to the date, but I feel as if I'm not "his first choice" or at least his parents' first choice and that I'll "pay" for this all my life.

I just do not know what to do.

Brit.