We are not doing the traditional events: no Dollar dance, no bouquet toss, no garter, we are replacing with the "anniversary dance" ... As it eliminates younger couples, the last couple standing (married the longest) will receive my bouquet. I eliminates some of the humiliation I only have a couple of friends that are single (guys & girls) and I don't want to embarass them. Besides, I think the anniversary dance is sweet. I love to see grandparents still in love!!