I'm completely lost in planning my wedding. My fiance and I are getting married in April 2009 so its going to be spring (hopefully, living in kentucky weather changes at the drop of a hat) I can't decide on a theme, colors, or anything for that matter. I like emerald green but when my mom and mother-in-law to be suggest pinks or purples to go with that color I shy away from it since pink hasn't been my favorite color. I'm more tomboyish. I had decided on a western themed wedding but decided against it since its going to be spring time and a huge downside is that I would have to order my wedding dress out of a cataloge without even trying it on! Big NO in my mind. My fiance has completely stepped back and let me take the reins on everything but I'm slowly coaxing him into helping. He has made suggestions of doing a horse themed wedding since I've got a horse and I've been crazy about horses all my life but I also want to include him and he's into tennessee football, construction, bullriding that stuff. I have thought about doing a patriotic wedding since he was in the army but I can't decide. Oh any suggestions would greatly be appreciated!