I hate to sound like bridezilla....because I most certainly am not that at all! My in-laws and I have always gotten along great and planning this weddnig has not made it any different.

YOU ARE THE BRIDE! This is YOUR day! If you simply hate the place they have picked out, talk to them about it.

Now, if your place is too pricey and that's why they have swayed from it, then you HAVE to understand their point of view. However, I do feel that you should be able to have that conversation with them.