Thanks for your answer, yes I will tell him that.
For the moment he's gone for 3 days (for work) so I'm on my own, and he just rings me in the mornings and evenings (it's an internal meeting with his company, they have training all day and dinners in the evening), and he did have the time to send me a little "encouraging" email..

But yes I think I'm going to call off the wedding...