Ok I think you should have both of them as your maids of honor. That'll keep confusing down and neither one of them will be mad. I've encounter the same problem. But I have three best friends one which has been my best friend ever since the 2nd grade we're like siters, one has been my best friend for the last five years who has been through everything with me, and last but least my last best friend which I haven't seen in about five years or more but we talk on the regular.The first best friend I mentioned is in school I decided her be in my wedding but to be one of the braidsmaid because she couldn't handle and be there to help me with everything. But the other two I knew will be right there when I need a hand and I need their opinion. To put a long story short pick the one you know will be there help you with everything and will give the best speech about you!!!!!!!!!