Megan - couldn't agree more with your post. I cannot tell you how many brides I've talked to over the years and any of them who had a family member take the images was extremely disappointed. The only time it works is if the family member is a professional photographer - but like Megan said - they have to work at your wedding rather than be a guest. I say go with the pro! And if you have any flexibility in your budget, skimp on the paper napkins and sugar covered almonds and get the best photographer your money can buy. You won't regret it!