Do it up girl! Your guests are going to want to give you a gift - regardless if it's your second wedding - so register...otherwise you'll end up with a bunch of stuff you cannot return.

What I wouldn't do - and this goes for first time brides too - don't have several parties. I've seen girls do engagement parties, bachelorette parties, lingerie parties AND a shower. People will begin rolling their eyes. I say go for just one.