Well, anyone who has read any of my posts knows my origional wedding date was set for 10-9-10. NOW, I'm pretty sure my fiance' and I are getting married 9-4-09 ! I really wanted to move it up a year because my grandmother hasn't been doing all that well. I just know in my heart she wouldn't make it to 2010. I thought there would be a better chance by changing to 2009. My other grandparents are up there in age as well ~ I think 84 and 85 years old. I would be devistated if none of them were around for my wedding. With that being my biggest reason, we also figured having it a year sooner meant things wouldn't be quite as expensive as in 2010.
We also may not being having the wedding at the farm I've been talking about for the past 4 months lol. I still really love the idea of the farm, but I am just so paranoid about bad weather because the owner has no backup plan for that. God forbid it rained that day ~ everything would be ruined. And also moving the date to the first weekend of September means it will probably still be pretty damn warm out. I don't want to be all sweaty in that dress lol. So, we're now thinking about having it in a local restaurant. It has an outdoor space with a gazebo and a lake behind it, so we can still have the ceremony outside ~ provided it's nice weather. I just feel so much better knowing we have a place indoors in the event of rain.
It's just crazy how much changes by switching the date. I'm really feeling the pressure now to get things booked lol. And my whole Fall theme is out the window because it'll be too warm for that. I probably wouldn't even be able to get pumpkins yet! lol. But anyways, that is what has been going on with me lately. Thank you for letting me vent ladies.