
04-10-2008, 02:15 PM
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Elite BOB
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Duluth, MN
Posts: 71
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To register or not to register...that is the question.
Since my fiance' and I have lived together for a year and have an established household, we really don't need to register for anything. I would have been okay with registering for a few things that we could maybe upgrade, but FH says no way, we don't need anymore crap.
While I do agree with that, my thoughts are that people are going to buy us crap whether we ask for it or not, may as well be crap we asked for
Now that the invitations are out and rsvp's are coming in, people are asking, "what can we get you? Where are you registered?" It seems kind of tacky to say that we're not registering, but we certainly will take cash!
I've been trying to use word-of-mouth that we have a lot of projects at home and would welcome gift cards from a home improvement store...but I still feel bad not having any physical gift ideas for them.
I know FH would flat out refuse to come register with me, so I guess my question is (yes, I'm just now getting to it, haha) Would you go basically behind your fiance's back and register for a few things or just let it go..?
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