I am in the same boat, deciding if we want to send them out or not. Other couples I know have done some fun things. Once couple had huge plastic clips made with their date on it for people to clip in the planners or agendas as a reminder, I've seen bookmarks with the couples name and date on it, I have also seen the magentic ones as well. Another idea for saving some $$ if you do want to send them out is to get postcards made instead of cards. This saves on the postage.