I have a fake relationship with my mother-in-law to be as well. I have decided that it is what it is ... she's never going to be satisfied with me. When we first got engaged, she would invite her son over for dinner and not me and talk about all of the ladies she had picured him marrying. She even went as far as to have this conversation with several guests at a party in which we all attended. I have decided that she is an evil, mean person, who herself is not happy with her own life so must ruin all happy moments for us! Her current kick right now is that one of the groomsmen is having a backyard BBQ for all of the wedding party and a few of the young people invited to the wedding. She called her son today hysterically crying about how betrayed she felt not getting invited to this event. She is crazy and has too much time on her hands!!!