It is wonderful that most of you think that one should buy what she wants and not just settle for something because that is the custom. A lot of people tend to use other gemstones at least as side stones along with the diamond in engagement rings. I feel that in itself is an improvement considering how narrow- minded people used to be regarding a 'no-diamond' engagement ring. Though I personally prefer diamonds, I also think it would be a good variety if people get engagement rings with other gemstones.