So, I'm big, but my bridesmaid's even bigger. I've found plenty of places that offer plus sized dresses, but they offer exclusively plus sized, and I've got a couple of toothpicks as bridesmaids, too. Since I want my dresses to be the exact same color, buying from separate places isn't really an option. I've found several options of lines that carry sizes small enough for my small girls, but that only go up to size 28 for the plus sized gal. My problem is, I'm not sure if she is larger than that or not. How in the heck can I ask her without sounding incredibly rude?