tiffany, I can relate to how you are feeeling about every little detail. I am like that when it comes to whatever, so I can only imagine how I am going to be before my wedding (we have over a year so I'm still good) you mentioned month-to-month checklists. I would make yourself a list of all the little things you think of, as you think of them. I do that alot and then i just make a word document with boxes so i can check them off. It may be a little more work in your already WAAAAAAAAAAAAY too busy life, but I'm sure it will help A LOT when the big day comes. Hope that helps!