Well, basically I just have no idea if anyone is gonna throw one for me lol. I wouldn't come right out and ask anyone either. I just don't feel right doing it. I've asked my mom if she could call my MOH and ask if she plans on throwing one, but my mom feels kinda weird doing that because my MOH is my dad's niece....and my parents are divorced lol. I'm gonna mentioned it to her again though. I've also made it a point in bringing this up with a good friend of mine ~ telling her that I don't think anyone will throw one for me. And she told me to give her my MOH's # and she'd call and ask. But that just looks a bit too odd to my MOH. It's easier for my mother to 'sneak' and get her # than it would be for my friend. You get my drift? lol My friend kinda made it sound like she would throw one for me if my MOH didn't. It's just a matter of finding out right now.