So I am kinda freaking out because no-one is returning the reply cards. An aunt told me that her invite was received all mangled in the mail, so now I am worried that no-one received their invitations and that is why they are not replying. The invites asked for everyone to reply by 4/17/2008, so that is exactly a week ago. Is it too early to start freaking, or should I start calling and finding out what happened?