wow - with all the posts I am reading maybe it's better my inlaws arent invloved! I don't have a relationship with my parents and my inlaws: my mil is deceased and my father in law is to busy lady hunting 10 states over to worry about weddings!!! Although I wish my mom was around to help me plan - hear my ideas etc I guess it's good she's not because it's stressful enough - I don't want to hear how everything sucks in her opinion. Plus she solely paid for my sisters wedding and we were speaking two years ago when my fh and I talked about starting the wedding plans - she didn't offer to pay for anything! Not one thing! I have my daughters - my oldest being 9 and loving to hear about the wedding as she is my new maid of honor! Hang in there ladies. This is your day, not the inlaws, not the moms -ignore the rude comments, stand up for yourself and make your peace with your fh's becuase that's all that matters!