My sister and I don't get along the greatest and at the moment we aren't speaking to each other. Whenever I try to talk to her, she is rude and makes me upset so I basically give up. I love her of course but we have never been friends. I was her maid of honor in her wedding (even though it was just at the court house). Shouldn't the maid of honor be someone close to me that I can count on? She lives 8 hours away so it would be hard for her to help out anyway. At one time I was acutally contemplating not inviting her to my wedding. I'm not really sure what to do. I don't want to make her mad but why should I continue to be nice to her if she never puts forth an effort?