Hi ! It looks like we are in the same situation. Funny too, I notice you are from Upland, Ca and I am from Chino, Ca. Looks like we are neighbors. I have been with my FH for 8 years and I know he is excited for me to be his wife. But, Mr. Cheap has been showing up lately. We do not have any help from either one of our parents. I have been working extra hours and trying to save money. It is really hard. I do not want a expensive wedding either so it does ruin the fun when you are planning and he is being cheap. I have been really looking for bargains before I tell him what things costs. This way he is not so overwhelmed. I wish he could hear some stories of just how much some weddings cost. My wedding is in October and it is approching fast. I am so excited. Good luck! Remember to enjoy planning one of the best days of your life.