You know, that is the thing. I have about 4 wedding sites I'm a part of and I have printed out all the checklist and planning material but most of the things on the list I just think it is too early for. For instance,, my friends say that I should have my menu already confirmed but my family and I are doing the food and I don't know what to buy now and hold for 4 months or so. The candy favors I want, I don't want to have them stored at my house 4 months in advance. I know I should have my dress by now and that is my main stressor right now. I can't find a DJ, my daughter's dress, I'm afraid to buy right now she she goes so fast. She is 9 years old and from month to month it seems I'm changing out cloths.