I swear this is not me but it is a coworker who I have watched suffer and it is killing me. Her daughter is getting married this summer. The boy she is marrying also has a sister being married this summer. So we have the brides family paying for one wedding and the groom's family paying for their daughter. The problem is the grooms family is quite wealthy my friend is not. She raised her daughter on a divorced mother salary. The future mother-in-law is monitoring all plans by my friend and her daughter saying "Oh you should do this or you should do that" because they are doing it for their daughters wedding. My coworkers daughter (the bride) is getting all caught up in the new mother in law. She agrees with the grooms mother and wants all of these expensive plans that my friend can not pay for. My friend is hurt and terribly embarrased. Any advice I can tell her to help>>>