I just went on that website
www.myjeanm.com and they have some really neat things. I was thinking about doing my invitations myself since I have plenty of time (not getting married until 2009) but after reading your story, I think I should look at other alternatives and what I really liked about that site (jeanm) is that the invitations look like something that I would make for myself. I was also able to chat with an online rep and what I liked the best was that they will assemble them also and it is no extra charge. They even said that they could mail them if I wanted them to.
Thanks for the advice. I still have some time, but I think that I will be looking at Jean M to help me with a lot of my items.