05-13-2008, 07:44 AM
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Newbie BOB
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Join Date: May 2008
Location: New york
Posts: 1
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Mother in Laws, help
I am marrying an italian, his family loves me but they are so controlling and want to be in charge of everything, they think its their wedding. But my fiance tells them where to go when they get out of hand... but i feel like i am fighting a never ending battle with her, and everyone says an italian mother is the worst when its "her little boy". My FMIL, went out and bought her dress behind my back, an my mom still hasn't even gotten her dress. I wouldnt really even make a big deal about her getting her dress, if she werent so sneaky about things and trying to hide it, now what if coincidentally my mother gets the same color? I need advice... everything she thinks is right, is the way she wants everything, we are doing it OUR way and not hers, and i think she hates that she cant control all the plans. I need to figure out what to do or say to her just so she knows that she cannot control our lives and everything that we want to do. Any advice?? 
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